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Programmed Not to Believe What You See, Hear, Taste and Smell

There are some things you might be doing and saying that show just how programmed you really are by what others think like parents for starters, employers, friends, society, government and more.  Check this list of signs and start working to deprogram yourself from negative thinking and other thoughts that keep you bound to toxic systems, beliefs, people, etc.

1.  You have a long history of being told by relatives to keep quiet, say nothing, mind your own business, and other similar statements and you do just that without challenging anyone no matter how wrong they are.  This still goes on to date with the associations you belong to, your family members and friends.

2.  You are fearful to rock the boat because in the past you were repeatedly warned what the consequences might be if you do. So even now, rather than speak truth, you say nothing or work around it.

3.  Whenever you mention something new, different, thought-provoking, or intelligent to a partner or other family members they look at you with a dumb look, criticize you, make a joke out of it, or ignore you.  You find yourself careful to avoid certain topics because you have been treated poorly by others and worry over possibly starting an argument.  You are running out of things to talk about as a result.

4.  You go along just to get along even when you know you shouldn't because you don't want to black-balled or disrespected.

5.  You are fearful of stating an opinion that doesn't go along with how the majority around you feels and you teach others to do the same.  "Shhh!"is your motto.

6.  You find yourself behaving sneakily, exaggerating, lying or covering up your feelings with a partner and other people.  You don't care what your behavior does to others because "they said..."

7.  If someone says something stinks, tastes awful, or looks strange even though you disagree, you fake like you agree anyway and then tell others something else.  You have been told in so many words, "You are fake...a liar...shady."

8.  You go along with unpopular opinion or controversial teachings given to you by others because you were offended by a person or specific group even though the people are well-meaning.  You don't bother to research or question why you are so angry, hateful or easily offended by those that you oppose.

9.  You take far too many things personal just like--you fill in the blank.  You are told you act just like a certain person. 

10.  You get mixed up into things that have nothing to do with you.  You claim you are being loyal to friends, but within you know what you are doing or saying to defend your social circle is downright stupid.

11.  When you receive any kind of truth, even with the evidence right in front of you, you deny it just because you don't like who is delivering it.  You make a point to find fault, bad-mouth and disagree.

Brainwashed people behave like this especially around their favorite people.  Folks like this who don't bother to further their understanding about a possible life-changing subject, come up with excuses.  They are easy targets for media manipulation, parental manipulation, entertainment toxic programming, spousal abuse, government lies and cover ups, scammers on and offline, hustlers, pimps, and more.

Nicholl McGuire is the author of Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men and She's Crazy.

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