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It's a Fight to Appreciate Ignorant White and They Ain't Always Right

When a person has eye-rolled, deep sighed, ignored, or said something offensive to you, it's hard at times to forgive and forget or keep quiet.  It can be even more challenging when you have gone through verbal as well as non-verbal battles with ignorant white people who just "don't get you...what's wrong with you people...why do black people always...I never knew that about black people...." Sigh.

What is also a challenge these days for me is dealing with our ignorant kinfolk, who still have the mentality that because someone is "white" they are right, smarter, friendlier, more helpful, patient, or whatever else they have been programmed to believe or their limited personal experiences has suggested.  I don't know if that programming has resurfaced because some wealthy blacks are making some good money in investments since this President has been in office, but I digress. 

I have trouble appreciating ignorant white people or anyone else that assumes a skin color somehow makes you better.  Not that long ago, I told my children I see that you have no problem doing as you are told when your white teachers tell you to do something, but as a black woman, more specifically, your mother, you have issues.  My son corrected me, "Oh I don't listen to them either."  What!?  Yep.  My own personal belief had been shattered.  "You should be listening to all of us then and doing the right thing," was my response.  Funny, how color programming from yesteryear has a way of showing back up again. 

Lately, the ignorance has been much, too much!  I can't educate or give all these ignorant white people I come across a great experience being in the presence of a black woman such as myself.  I get tired and angry sometimes too!  Our plate was served to us black women long ago by affluent brothers and sisters who told our generation don't give them white folks anything negative to talk about that reinforces their stereotypical view of our people--represent for all of us well.  Burnt out! 

Sooner or later the wrong thing is going to be said yet again, you know that.  "Rise above it" is what I hear in the spirit.  Yes, but it's hard, real hard especially when movies are out there reminding the world once again about blacks, slavery, freedom, and overcoming obstacles while at the same time reminding whites about the power their ancestors wielded over our ancestors and how they can systematically once again use the sins of the pasts to control the future once again. They don't put movies out like Harriett for nothing.  Meanwhile, I think of our brown sisters and brothers who may be so inspired to get FREEDOM for themselves while watching that movie--maybe that was a part of a bigger plan, huh?

Yes, it is a challenge dealing with the ignorance all around, but remember as much as they want you to see the so-called "right" in their ways, always keep both eyes open not just one, I see you!

Nicholl McGuire

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