You most likely heard about someone you know "going crazy" or "losing their mind." It basically implies that their thinking and behaving (that was once logical--made sense) is now illogical, confusing, and downright foolish.
What drives people to go crazy? Well, some of us know that if you drink or use drugs long enough, it will mess you up! I think of the many relatives and friends, who are now seniors, that are literally half crazy behind all the partying back in the day. Toothless, senseless, and meaningless is pretty much how they are living their last days on planet earth. But there are those other folks who lost their minds. Their craziness had nothing to do with drugs or alcohol. Some were just born that way while others gradually became crazy over time due to a death of a loved one (or too many loved ones,) a break up (or too many breakups,) significant financial loss, and other issues. These people concern me, because they don't know they are crazy.
As much as we like to talk about how wise some of our elders are, if you sit with some of them long enough, they are losing what little sense they have left. Sure, they may know a little scripture, and have some years of caring and providing for family, but underneath it all there is a weed taking root (if not already) amongst all the pretty flowers. They mix good life lessons with bad habits. They say one thing and do another. They pride themselves on both "being good" and "telling it like it is." There are those superstitions the elderly speak of which do nothing but keep people in bondage and besides its crazy talk. Then of course "the good ole days" the elderly populace speak of which for some were really hard times. From incestuous relationships to substance abuse, some of these older people and future generations are reaping what previous generations have sown for decades. As much as some will, "praise God," they will also curse their children. There is an ugliness with those minds that have gone crazy despite what others may call beautiful.
Now I know for some, the word "crazy" can also be used as a fun way to laugh along with someone who is acting like a fool. But seriously, it is no laughing matter when someone is saying crazy statements like wanting to hurt someone over the littlest of things. Then there is the constant forgetting, the lack of caring for one's self and others, mood swings, impatience, hyperactivity, frequent fighting, and more these are all signs someone is indeed losing it!
Some women have lost their minds over men who have for years acted in controlling ways including: using intimidation and manipulation tactics, lying, name-calling, hollering, physical and emotional abuse. Rather than take up their issues with that man whose driving them crazy, they are at war with everyone around them who makes them a tad bit uncomfortable. These crazy women are ready to fight at the drop of a dime over everything from their place in line to who was last in the refrigerator and left the door open.
You can't measure sane or insane when just meeting a person, but overtime, crazy can't stay in hiding for long. It always shows its ugly head! Someone either tells on the person who once did a few too many crazy acts or the crazy person tells on him or herself in the way that he or she talks and/or walks.
If you consider yourself somewhat sane, but those around you are always saying, "Girl, you crazy!" or "Man, you are out of your mind!" You just might want to check yourself. Who knows, you just might be freed of something that may one day take over your mind in the near future. None of us isn't getting any younger and no telling how crazy we might end up in the future. Some of ya'll know that crazy is hereditary, so it is in your best interest to stay prayerful!
Nicholl McGuire
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