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Smart Black Folks: You Know Them, You're Probably One

Most of us recognize a smart, wise black person a mile away!  It may be the way they walk, talk, or just react to certain situations.  Now I'm not talking about just any intelligent black person, but a certain one, that no matter the title, you just know, "Now this one, he's smart!  Yeah, I could listen to her!" 

Now smart, wise, I mean truly smart, wise people, aren't popular. I am referring to people that are both book smart and spiritually wise.  They are usually the ones who aren't making television appearances, aren't particularly affiliated with any group, rarely if ever, market any of their products (if they have any,) and you most likely won't find them posing on the front of magazines trying to make their name a brand-- oh no!  These people reserve their wisdom for a select few.  Like the Holy Bible warns, they don't cast their pearls to swine!

I truly enjoy the company of intelligent, wise people, but if they are solely book smart, well those type, not so much.  They can be a bit dry, boring and really don't seem to be interested in conversing or listening to others.  They maybe playing with fingers, looking around, staring through you, and randomly commenting on things that don't always connect the dots.  "Well yes, I hear what you are saying, but I would like to express my concern about blah, blah, blah, blah...I see you like onyx, now do you?  I couldn't help but notice your ring..."  Huh? You think.  Many of the "out-there, brainy" types disassociate themselves from being black and seem to criticize and/or insult you because you are black and dare I say it, in their eyes, "One of the ignorant."  

Now smart, wise black folk come in all shapes, sizes and colors.  However, like everyone else, they are flawed people.  Some will admit a wrong, but others gradually lose their "smart" points with me when they are so busy putting their brains to use that they fail to use common sense!  Some of you reading this, know what I am talking about, you probably got one or two in your inner circle.

Now these people may look smart, act smart, but when talking to these folks, they fail to incorporate wisdom in their conversations, because simply put, their egos get in the way!  At first, they appear open to listen to you.  They may respond as if interested or let you do all the talking until they think they have let you hang yourself.  Then that's when they will listen less, do alot of interrupting in the conversation (or cutting you off,) finger-pointing and criticizing so as to appear all-knowing.  I say, save that phoenix god mentality for someone stupid, because this sister isn't buying it!

Before long, the once smart, wise black person becomes a smart (you fill in the blank,) realizes you know more about a certain subject matter, they go off in a different direction, hoping that you will go there with them and never return to your original thought. 

Worse, some intelligent black folk get slick, that's right I said "get slick," and try to steal your wise thought and make it their own by saying, "Well what I was implying...what I meant to say...you misunderstood me..."   Yeah sure.  The next thing you know, they are repeating your idea and/or opinion right back to you just in a slightly different way.  They may even throw in a few big words to sound well, shall we say, "Proper..." think of the voice of that character Madea when you read this, "Propuuurr."

It's all funny to me as I write.  I think of the head games that even those we consider wise will play when debating.  Don't ever underestimate that smart, wise old woman or that high IQ seated before you.  They might look a little strange, may not have as much materially as you, but they do know a thing or two.  Some of us, as someone once told me when I was a teenager, are just too smart for our own good.

Nicholl McGuire
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